Monday, August 15, 2011

To be a good friend...

From Gloria Gaither, Sue Buchanan, Peggy Benson, and Joy Mackenzie of "Friends Through Thick and Thin."

To be a good friend...

1. Smile often; laugh aloud now and then; giggle even.

2. Become aware of several things that you especially enjoy. Watch for others who enjoy those same things.

3. Identify an acquaintance who has a need you can supply. Offer yourself. (Hint: start with the obvious-- your sister, spouse, neighbor...)

4. Learn to enjoy being alone with yourself. Identify what elements of living enrich your life. Incorporate them into your daily routine. If you are happy being you, it's likely others will enjoy your company too!

5. Forget what you give and remember what you receive,

6. Be the one who is there doing when others are saying, "Is there anything I can do?"

7. Listen-- even in the silence.

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